My friends bachelorette

So I need to vent! One of my best friends is getting married next month (a wedding that I will not be able to attend as it is in punta Cana and I refuse to travel there with Zika going around down there). Her bachelorette party is up here though and it's in a few weeks. Her MOH just emailed all f us and said she wants to do a party bus and that it'll be 50 bucks per person. She also wants to do a private winery tasting for 30 bucks a person and then bar hopping. I get it, it's a bachelorette and everyone wants to drink. I am annoyed about the party bus thing bc I was just going to drive myself since I obviously won't be drinking. I'm also obviously not going to drink at the winery but would still have to pay to be part of the private seating and tour. I don't want to be a wet blanket but it's annoying to have to spend 80 dollars on this shit when I won't even be drinking.