Is this being rude?

Okay so my fiance and I did a baby reveal with his family in January. He asked we be the ones to post what the baby is but no one listened and did it anyway.

When the baby is born we've decided to ask no one post pictures of him till one of us have. If they don't obay they won't be aloud back at the hospital.

They can post about him being born we just want to be one of the first to post pictures. Is this being rude at all?

Just curious to see what y'all think...