Cousin is stealing my baby room theme!

From day one I new I wanted micky or Minnie mouse. I have vintage photos and art from my childhood that is going in my nursery. Well we ate having a girl and it's pretty much Minnie mouse with micky thrown in here and there. As soon as I announced I was pregnant my cousin just had to get pregnant now she is stealing my theme! I was even nice and moved my baby shower date up so our showers wouldn't be so close together. I'm so upset. She is one of those snooty people that has to out do everyone. Is it wrong of me to hope she has a boy so I can shine for once! When I announced I was pregnant I got "oh that's great" when she announced everyone acted like it was the most amazing thing ever! I know I shouldn't be so selfish I just want my moment for once.

I also am doing rainbow baby maturity pictures (because I lost a baby before this pregnancy) and she says she wants that now also. She NEVER lost a baby!!

I'm just pissed. I never even told her or anyone else what I was doing my sister did. I knew this would happen. It's so stupid!