Hello,

Ftm, and not looking for "ditch that dude" comments just wondering if my partners involvement or lack thereof is normal or if he really isn't being a partner. He has made it to 1/3 ultrasounds and 1/who knows midwife appointments he did not come to the parent classes/hospital tour and i was the only person there without a partner, he was working an all day ot day so i never pushed it. But i practically begged him with tears to get off work 30-60 mins early today to come to the parent classes with a local doula, he turned down ot work yesterday because je was tired, which i get he works HARD and hasnt had a day off in about 2 weeks. But today when i asked if he was coming said idk depends on when we get off... Then took the ot and never came to the class...i was again the only one without a partner. I feel like i have to beg him to be involved l...he never talks to baby or feels my stomach unless i tell him too, he just doesn't really seem to notice. Or get excited....i watched the other dads with notepads and questions and was just soo sad.