Feeling down

Okay so I'm seeing all these mommy's to be with baby bumps at 6 7 8 weeks and I'm happy for them don't get me wrong but I'm a bigger girl I know I am I was a size 15/16 before I got pregnant and my fiancé swears I look pregnant but I think I just look fat. I bloat and have no bump at all I'm 9 weeks and I have a healthy baby which I'm so happy about. I just wish I had a little bump. Can any mamas that was on the bigger side tell me when they started to show?? Please no negative comments about how I should be happy I have a healthy baby because I am I'm just tired of everyone saying I look like I've put the pounds on when I've actually lost 3 pounds in 3 weeks TIA