So something happened when my baby was born my baby is almost 1 and this topic is still brought up to this day. So the night I gave birth my MIL was there I didn't want her to be there for my birth but didn't say no to not argue with my husband. When I went to the recovery room my husband and his mother followed but the nurse said only 1 person could stay thank god because if she could of she would of. But it was so annoying because for the 2 days I had to stay, she was there from morning to late at night I never asked her to stay and be my body guard 😑 I was pretty annoyed because she would come and tell my husband to go to her house to shower and "sleep" what a coincidence one of those days my mom drove by his mom's house since they live close to each other and said she saw my husband playing soccer outside with his brothers which really annoyed me because he basically was out playing instead of being with his newborn and I at the hospital where he should of been because his mom wasn't my baby's father. He would leave around 11 am and not come back until around 7 pm. Anyways, I had his mom kicked out and he still blames me and tells me his mom did nothing to me when he doesn't see how I felt, first of all she never asked me if it was okay for her to be there for my birth, 2nd of all, her staying at the hospital was so annoying always taking my baby, 3rd of all, she swaddled my baby so tight that my baby got a cut on her foot where her bracelet was, I didn't notice until the day I was getting discharged poor baby had a bloody cut. I obviously didn't want my baby to be swaddled because I noticed she didn't like it so I would always have her unswaddled but my MIL would always swaddle her. She also grabbed my baby from my arms when I signed the discharge papers, started snooping through MY diaper bag and started dressing my child the way she dressed her was ugly she combined outfits that didn't even look nice together and were different colors she then started telling me how to dress like lady please, I will dress MY own child and I will wear whatever I please NOT what you tell me to wear. I was called stupid that day and told that I knew nothing about caring for a child, um yeah it's not rocket science I was fully capable of taking care of my child on my own if I needed "help" I would of asked for it. It's one thing to help and another to over step your boundaries. I don't think I was wrong at all but since my husband always throws this in my face I want to know what everyone else thinks
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