sigh help?

second time ever having sex, I was on top and basically did all the work, thinking it'd give me an orgasm. It was super hot and loving and he came, but after a while I just felt blah like nothing was happening. When we finished and were laying there I told him I didn't orgasm and he faked being hurt to make me laugh, but after he wasn't in the mood to help me finish and I guess I'm kind of bummed out ugh