Boyfriend only makes out with me?

Question

Call me crazy, but I'm not a big fan of making out because I have anxiety related to feeling trapped and for some reason making out makes me feel suffocated/trapped. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 16. I was his first kiss so I don't really blame him, but the only kind of kissing we ever do is making out and it makes me anxious. I love kissing, just not full on making out. I want to say/do something today, what can I do? I definitely don't want to be rude or hurtful.

Answer

Talk to him about it. Explain how it makes you feel

Answer

Just tell him

Answer

Just explain to him how you feel. It won't be rude or anything. You need to tell him what you like so he can improve for you

Answer

I would just tell him. He shouldn't get too upset about it. My boyfriends the same way he doesn't like making out which I do and it's a little frustrating but you two should be able to work it out

Answer

I'm sure he wants kissing to be enjoyable for you too! I would explain it how you just did, that it's not anything he's doing wrong, it's just that it's one of your triggers for your anxiety. He might get a little upset at first but I think that's fair, he thinks he's been doing something you like, it's hard to hear that you don't. He should get over it quickly and he definitely shouldn't blame you or get angry with you, if he does he's being very unfair.

Boyfriend only makes out with me?

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products