Should I just get over my fear and loose my virginity?

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I've had a boyfriend for technically 5 years but officially 2.  We've talked about sex and when we were going to have it. I always said I wanted to loose my virginity when I get married and I didn't wanna get married until I'm 25 and he said he didn't wanna wait that long. And I've thought of having sex already but I feel like I'm too young and not ready for that. I'm scared I might get pregnant and I made a promise to myself I wouldn't loose it. But he turns me on so much 😩😂😂  What should I do? And thank you in advanced 😊❤️

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Don't go against your beliefs just because he asked you to. Do what YOU wanna do. Do what YOU feel comfortable with. If he truly loves you, he'll accept that and won't try to pressure you.

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There's noooooo reason to rush into sex. People have sex until they're like 80 nowadays so you will have decades and decades of sex eventually. If you're not comfortable with it there's no reason to dive in. Sure, you'll always be nervous to admit you're ready for your first time but it should be something you want 100% without a doubt. There's a lot you can get done with your hands in the mean time~~

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Don't set an age for marriage or sex. 
Do it when you're ready. 
Use a condom and get on birth control and you won't get pregnant.

There's no age for marriage/commitment or sex.

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Don't give it up because you feel guilty because he wants it. If he pressures you and crosses boundaries that's manipulation not love. I would know. I've been with my partner for a couple years and k was ready well before he was. It's not about when he wants it. It's when you're ready. If if you promised yourself it's up to you and no one else. If that's important to you then save yourself for marriage. Pressure should never be reason to go back on the promises you made to yourself.

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You won't get pregnant if you get on birth control and wear condoms but I still say to respect your morals and wait till you're married . If he doesn't respect your morals and says he can't wait that long then he's not worth it . If he wants to go have sex then let break up with him . I just wouldn't want you to get hurt by him just because he wants to have sex and can't get it from you so he goes out and cheats on you . Don't disrespect your morals just because he wants to bang . Tell him to masturbate just like any other ordinary man out there .

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It's up to you. Don't let him push you. If the time is right and you want it then do it. You shouldn't feel scared.

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I lost mine this year it hurts the first time only and then it gets better. Do what u want don't let him pressure you.

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Stick to your morals! If he loves you then he will understand.

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Stick to your morals

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Don't let him pressure you into it. If you're not ready, don't do it. If he doesn't like it, too bad.

Should I just get over my fear and loose my virginity?

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