Lost child

Christa
Salam Sisters
I recently gave birth at 22 weeks, Allah blessed us with a beautiful girl who graced our lives via the Nicu for 9 days. Throughout this time we prayed that if it be Allahs will she would grow stronger daily or that if life would be to difficult for her that he take her gently. Her heart stopped just as we arrived at the hospital on the 9th day. 
We buried our angel in a peaceful spot that gave us much comfort. I however find myself now mourning the pregnancy (it took us 2.5 years of fertility treatment and a previous miscarriage to get this far). 
If anyone has any words of guidance to help me get passed this point and to prevent me losing sight of what was best for our daughter rather than for me they would be highly appreciated. 
Warm wishes to you all Ck x