Not getting married.

Can someone please talk me in to being okay with not getting married 😔 I want it so bad, I'm 19 weeks pregnant and out of nowhere my man decided he doesn't want to get married, he said it changes people and this whole time we had been planning to get married a year after the baby was born. I don't want to fight about it because if it isn't meant to be then I don't want to force it. I just want to know how to cope, so many people on here are against marriage, and I would love to know why so maybe I can accept my fate. Please no judgemental or hateful comments. This was never about religion to me I just always dreamed of the big poofy dress and gorgeous ring and having my husband by my side.Â