So glad I found this group!

I am 5'3, 205lbs, and 12 weeks pregnant. I've seen a specialist already for other problems but none of my docs have mentioned my weight. I have a very saggy tummy from previous weight gain and loss so I definitely don't look "round" but I carry almost all of my weight in my stomach. I got my first "oh your just fat" comment this week. I had an ultrasound at the specialists and the tech asked me if I wanted to find out the gender and we said we were still deciding that (we were only 11 weeks and some days so too early to tell). Then she looks at my chart and says OH never mind I thought you were much further. 😣 Anyone else worrying about how their bump will be saggy and yuck? I was not this big with my last two, 12 (170) and 15 (150) years ago so this is all new to me. Just feeling sad about how my bump doesn't look anything like all the perfect pictures on here.