Drunk texts

My ex just texted me saying he's drunk and horny and then said he wants to hang out soon, he left me because he wanted to get back with his ex, why tf do guys only talk to me when they are drunk and horny and can't get other girls who treat them like shit to actually want to be with them, like I was an upgrade and now you're trying to make me a fucking side chick to a girl who doesn't actually care about you or some shit??????