What the heck dude ?

He is all over the place first he wants to work it out for our child , he tells me we hang out and start over ( okay cool ) so I told him I'll go over after I get out of school and then he says not today bc he's sick and shitting all morning .. I said wow okay & he then said I can't help it . So I ignore him ! Is he dodging me ? I don't want to force myself on him ! I'm so mad and hurt I got all dolled up and spent money on my nails and stood up till midnight last night straightening my lion hair ? feel so useless .