Our sex drives are mismatched
I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 27. The problem is that our sex drives don't match.
He is happy to have sex no more than 1-2 times a week. He usually only masturbates a few times a week.
I'm constantly in the mood for sex and I would rather have it 4-5 times a week.
My boyfriend prefers to have sex in the morning, so I compromised and started doing it then.
He knows that I want sex quite often and sometimes he avoids kissing me because he thinks it will lead to sex. He always jokes that I want sex and that I "expect" it when we have free time together.
This really hurts my feelings and makes me feel like I have a problem.
I try and talk to him about it and we never really get anywhere.
He has told me that sometimes he only has sex with me because he feels that he has to, and that makes me feel awful.
Usually once he is turned on, he gets in the mood and really want to have sex. But at any other time, he's really not in the mood.
I never want sex more than once a day, I don't think I want it too often.
I really don't know what to do 😢
Has anyone else been through this? Every other relationship I've had, our sex drives have been similar? Or the guy wanted it more than me.
Thanks for reading, sorry it's long
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