Anal sex??!

Question

I'm not really educated in all of this but I would like to learn something. This guy I'm currently seeing wants to have anal sex. I've done it once with my ex and I did not enjoy it and therefore I don't want to do it with the guy I'm with. He keeps asking me why I don't want do to it and I just tell him cause it's gonna hurt me .. and it is! I'm not lying about that part but he doesn't know I've done it already. And my question is anal sex always painful... or what?

Answer

No, it isn't always painful. It's never been absolutely painful for me. However, I will say the slower the pace the more uncomfortable I am. Just make sure he is lubed up and you are too. If you plan on doing anal, don't eat greasy foods, don't drink carbonated drinks, and use the restroom at least an hour beforehand. I suggest bending over the bed or being doggy style. It's the best positions for us. You really just have to be into it. If not then you'll clench and that will be why you feel pain. Push out slightly, and what will really help is either him or you massaging your clit.

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LOTS of lube.

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No it's definitely not always painful

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Nope. Every time me and my husband do it it's not painful at all. And we do it often

Use a vibrator on your clit the whole time and have him play with your ass till you relax and get lose or open you could say and then make sure either your supper super wet or find a live you like and it will go in easily. Just keep the vibrator on your clit the whole time it will help you stimulate and omg it feels amazing at the same time

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I don't mind anal but I have to be in the mood for it otherwise it's painful.

Anal sex??!

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