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Alright, so I'm a pretty traditional gal. I am 21 and have been happily married to my husband Joel since November 2014. He was with other girls before we got together, and he was my first everything. Literally, everything. 
Is it weird that I don't like kinky stuff? I won't do anything that requires my butt in his face(i.e.: reverse cowgirl), I don't care for cowgirl that much however I will do it, I've never given a blowjob, never let him go down on me, and I'm just barely getting comfortable with handjobs. Am I totally weird for basically liking traditional things?! I feel like I let him down due to the fact that I don't try a lot of things out.

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Your poor husband.

Push yourself out of your comfort zone you might enjoy it. 
You way want to read the joys of sex and learn how to derive more love and intamacy from these acts. They can really help strengthen a relationship.

That being said your boundaries are your boundaries but your husband may need an outlet for his kinky side- like porn or something!

It's hard on a relationship when two people are not on the same page sexually.

Good luck!

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Have you tried any of the things you "don't like"?

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Girl, you're missing out! Don't be afraid to explore a little! The best orgasms of my life have been from oral.

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So what's traditional to you, missionary? Explore! you might actually like these things. I mean I don't mind oral and other things because I know my husband likes them. It makes it more enjoyable. But if you stay so closed off your having your husband miss out on things and you are too

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I was ummm... Confident when I started having sex? Yeah that's what we will call it. However! Take time. You need to explore a little. My husband and I are very adventurous but there are still things I'm sorta not really comfortable with. I'm trying and taking my time with them. My husband doesn't push too hard to get me to try and I appreciate that. Try something new like once a month. There are so many positions out there and so much you can try. I really enjoy giving him oral. I know where and how to "hit" to get him moaning. Its actually really rewarding to know I can do that. Try it once and just see. Never know what will happen!

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A lot of those things are a lot of fun! Primarily because giving is a lovely way of saying "I love you" without using the words

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Hey it takes 2 to tango!  If he found a way of making you feel more comfortable and fun about it, then it might be a different story.  He's the experienced one, its down to him to teach you. You could ask him if he thought he could figure out a way, so you'd enjoy something different.  If its important to him, he will. Anyways, he picked you and married you, regardless of your technique ☺

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You like what you like, but try to keep an open mind. If you absolutely don't want to do something don't. Is there something new you would be willing to try? Maybe talk to your husband about something he might want to try and see how you feel about it.

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Oral is the best lol let it happen

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I used to be the same way. Very traditional and he was my first everything. I slowly got out of my comfort zone with hand jobs, blow jobs (he had to tell me what to do first, but I caught on), getting a dildo, eventually working my way up to lingerie and role playing. Now I'm not so self-conscious and we just have fun with it. Some days we have traditional sex and some days it's kinky. It depends on the mood. Just remember that communication and consent is key. It's good to get out of your comfort zone, but don't do something you don't want to just because he wants to. Good luck and have fun!

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