To old for piercings!!!!!

I'm 26 and in a serious relationship. I've had my clit pierced for years it fell out the other day I decided to leave it out I feel like I'm getting to old for that shit it was awesome when I was single but I'm trying to start a family. I talked my so in to getting his tongue pierced when we first got together now I wish he would take it out I've made comments but he won't listen