Has this ever happened to you?

I am 37 weeks today. At my 20 week anatomy scan we found out we were having a girl. Last monday I had an ultrasound done because she was breeched. They told us that our baby is frank breeched and a boy. I do not qualify to have an ecv done because there is not enough fluid. I am still in shock and have been so depressed going into my pink nursery. This has been the hardest week. I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced anything like this.