This is so silly but my husband is a scout leader and he has a scout jamboree coming up in January. They are every 3 years and he is really looking forward to it but I was hoping to have a baby by then which would mean he couldn't go. When ever he would bring up going to Jamboree I would get annoyed because if he went that would mean my dream hadn't by come true and I hated the thought of that. I ended up getting so annoyed that I said I didn't want to hear the J word in our house anymore. The months have slipped by and af came today so a January baby is off the cards, meaning he will be able to go away. I was crying in the bed about af and I said, at least you can go to Jamboree now and he said 'hey, we don't say the J word in this house.' Something stupid but made me realise how great he is.