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Shanean • Ttc our second child. Really want our first to have a sibling. Would love to have 3 children, they are such blessings!!
So, I'm 9 days late at 14dpo I had a small spot of blood 12dpo and my husband and I had sex today at 14dpo and I experienced spotting for about 3 hours and there is nothing now. I have had slight cramps very other day or so since my period date and my nipples have been crazy sensitive. I don't want to test cause of all the bfn in the past. Should I wait another week or so?