What's the deal with fingering??

Question

My boyfriend decided he was going to go finger me which I thought would be great because I usually get pretty wet when we makeout but the fingering  was awful I didn't even get wet and I bought after awhile it would get better but it didn't 
How do I break it to him that I don't like it the next time he tries??

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Just jamming a finger in there isn't erotic... Boys totally don't get this (especially younger boys) but foreplay is CRUCIAL! Since making out gets you wet, try doing that first, coupled with "heavy petting" (for a lack of a better word) and whatever else you like. Then tell him to at least use saliva to lube his finger up, but lube would be best. Also, tell him stop watching porn if he's looking for inspiration. Those girls are ACTING. In real life, a slow and gentle approach usually works best.

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if you're not enjoying it he's probably not doing it right. some guys just go in and out and it's like what r u doing but others do this thing where they like wiggle it inside or some shit 😂 teach him

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When he goes for it say "no don't do that, I don't get any pleasure from it" 
I mean it's your body you get a say in what feels good and what doesn't and you should be able to tell him what you do and do not want. If he gets mad let him be mad about it.

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Defiantly show him what you like and don't give up on the first time! Guys need practice too:)

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Honestly, he will learn the fastest if you show him how you touch yourself.  Most guys think they have to go hard and fast but that's an awful way to finger someone.

The first time I was fingered was during a drunk hook up with a friend- he literally shoved his finger and thumb in and opened like a speculum 😂😂

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Don't worry, I'm totally the same. Fingering doesn't do anything for me unless I'm super turned on. I always say "touch my clit instead" so he focuses there instead

What's the deal with fingering??

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