Am I The Only One

Am I the only one girls seem to automatically hate and turn on for no real reason ? 
I have always kept to myself I keep trying to think what I could've done but I've never really had a lot of friends who are girls for that reason I'm 18 now and it kinda upsets me that I've never had a group of girl friends ...is anyone else like this? 
(Not sure which is the right group to post in)