Feeling extremely lonely
I, for instance, have been married for almost 3 years. My DH is a wonderful man and we get along extremely well.
Recently we feel like we are ready to socialize more instead of just spending time with just each other, so we have been starting to try to go on double dates with other couples and also try to partner up with couples in various businesses.
Then I realized finding couple friends is so much harder than I thought. My husband & me were kinda self-protective (while in business mode) and we also feel like the other couple were self-centered as well. And when we go on double dates its rare that all four of us gets along well.
I tried to reconnect with those who used to be close with me and now dating someone else or married. And I found that guy friends are more prone to drift apart and didn't want to reconnect at all. By no means I want to hang out with those guys alone (I was looking for a double date) but I just found it sad that I feel like I have no friends of both gender since I got married.
May be its my fault because I was focusing a little too much on my own new family (I also moved away from home since getting married). But even finding new couple friends seemed hard to me.
Does anyone else feel the same? Tell me your experience!
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