Second time moms!?

So this is my first baby and I'm in my third trimester and I'm starting to get nervous for delivery I've asked friends who have had babies and i ask them how bad is the pain after birth and I can never get an answer I need some comfort how bad is the pain if you have an epidural does it hurt when they take your catheter out and how bad is the soreness and discomfort I'm just trying to mentally prepare myself I know everyone is different but it's still nice to know the possibilitys so please comment and give me your advise!