Need your ladies advice..please

I am 37yo hubs is 39yo. We are TTC #2 after 12 years.. I know better late than never (I'm in the military so timing was always off with deployments and Active Duty) anyways. About 2 weeks ago i had a couple drops of blood almost 2 weeks after we bd. I've had terrible mood swings, nausea, boobs sore, sickness (like a cold), indigestion, headaches, overly tired and had an increase in discharge last week.. The works. I'm due today but no sign of AF..normally lots of cramping and start the day with her. I do however have a UTI that started last week and am currently treating.. I'm really hoping for a baby bump... Any thoughts???? Thank You 👶👶👶