Muslim and Pregnant?

Question

I know, this seems so bad but I do not know what to do. I am lost, I want to give up. I can't even imagine my fathers reaction when I tell him. I feel as if I have tainted my family's reputation. I was foolish and now i'm stuck. Sneaking around with this guy behind my parent's back was the worse decision I could have possibly made.

Answer

Just be honest with your family/ your boyfriend. A child is always a blessing! God will guide you, do not worry x

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DON'T tell your parents.
People who will tell you to tell your parents are probably not raised in islamic family or islamic country or are probably progressive/liberal muslims, we don't know your parents we don't know what their reaction probably can be it depends on their personality and religion and culture but we know what islam says to do to whoever did adoltery so think well before saying anything to your parents , tell your boyfriend first meet him don't talk on the phone, see what he says, if he said that he'll marry you as soon as possible then tell your parents that there's a guy who wants to see them to marry you, and tell your boyfriend to never tell your parents that you're pregnant until after a while of your marriage, if you both don't wanna stay together forever just get married until your baby became 2 years old at least then divorce, if he doesn't want to marry you tell him to help you to get an abortion, if you live in islamic country you're f*cked up because it's really hard to get an abortion in islamic country and if you're a muslim not just from muslim family you're going to do a big sin after a sin so you better not do abortion choice is up to you, I personally don't support abortion but in cases like these it seems like it's one of the solution but keep it to be the last option, if he doesn't wanna marry you and you're 18+ see what the laws says in your country if you'll not get to the jail you and him for having sex before marriage ( adoltery ) then give the case to the court ( you're parents may kick you out or beat you to de@th and stop talking with or k!ll you after this, and let's not forget all the talk you're gonna hear from other family members you and your parents so take your time and think before making any move ). I know that my advices may sound terrible to someone else who's not from islamic country/family so if you think what I said sounds terrible I'll like to hear your advice to someone who's in this situation and it's a woman not even a man.

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People always make mistakes and sin differently, just because yours is more evident it doesn't make you a worse person. I'm sure your family has plenty of history and i hope they accept your pregnancy and aid you with the baby Insha'Allah

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