Controlling and stupid PCMs

Am I the only one who hates my pcm?? She seems so stupid and I feel like she should just retire already. I hate that I nees her referral or approval of something that I want to do. Its my life my body if I feel I want something done I should be allowed to in order to comfort me and make myself feel better. I shouldnt have to suffer at the hands of a doctor who THINKS she knows whats best for me or doesnt THINK I need something taken care of when really I do. I cant even get a separate gynecologist because she's also a gynecologist (and 1 I dont think I can be comfortable with). I've expressed wanting a separate gyno but never got any referral. And when I asked for an ultrasound referral then I should ge that approval so that I can move forward and find out. I have a condition that makes it harder to test pregnancy through urine and blood due to the low hcg levels. Tests like those possibly wont tell me if I'm pregnant until I'm in my 2nd trimester. I dont want to have to wait that long I want to take the steps I need to take to ensure I get past the fiest trimester. I dont want to stress over wondering if I am or not.

Does anybody else have a terrible PCM? And is ther any ways you have gotten what you wanted by making up an excuse