So one of my close friends had a stomach band thing about a year ago to help her lose weight, they told her a few months back that she could start ttc and now hubs wants nothing to do with it. She had the surgery because they told her she was too big to have children safely and diet change/ exercise wasn't helping at all. It's breaking her heart, she had to delete social media because she couldn't handle all baby announcements. Well I just found out my hubs and I are expecting. How should I go another telling her?