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I want another baby

I know a lot of people might judge me, but I am really wanting to have another baby. I'm 21 and have 2, both of which have the same father. He and I aren't together anymore (thank God) and I am engaged and will be getting married to the most amazing man in the world this may. My children are 1 and 3 and I am wanting another child so bad. I have 2 jobs but I plan on quitting one of my jobs so that I can start school in sept. My fiance is in the military and also has 2 jobs out side of that. We are pretty financially stable. I bring up babies every now and then just to get his reaction and I don't want him to think I'm rushing it especially since we aren't married yet. I just feel like since I have 2 kids already that are 22 months apart I don't want the last one to be to much younger. He doesn't have any kids of his own so I understand he may feel uncomfortable and not ready to start a family that fast. I feel selfish and I'm not trying to force him to get me pregnant (I couldn't even if I tried, I have the mirena) . I just really want to have another baby so bad and I know when we finally do have a baby he'd be amazing because he is so great with my little ones. I just don't know how I would tell him that I would like for the kids to be no more than 3 yrs apart without seeming like I want to get pregnant like right now... Even though I really want to.

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