Would you have a divorce party/cake?

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I'm just ending an 8 year relationship/ 2 year marriage where he became abusive. My divorce will be finalized this week. I've spent the last several years doing everything for him (bills, cars, you name it) and I have done very little for myself. When I left I only took my computer (for school), my car, and my clothes - got a protection order and an attorney.

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Start with this cake and do something for you!

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you go girl party and cake too

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Yes, my DH is an attorney and I am his office manager...I tell people congrats all the time;)

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Heck yeah. Celebrate a new beginning. Anyone who goes through abuse and has the courage to leave deserves at least a cake!!!

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Omg!  That sounds like me! Most of it anyway. Biggest things...mine may end this week (if not next wednesday) my relationship was 8 years, a year ago when he was forced to move out because of the restraining order. I have since moved on and ready to continue. I am thinking about having a celebration myself once I have my papers on hand!

Good for you for getting out of an abusive relationship.  I wish all the best and happiness you can handle

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Yes!!