Something I've noticed

Elle🎵
I've noticed something about this app. If you mention anything to do with race, people often say 'stop complaining/ blaming other people for your problems' or 'you are just being lazy you aren't oppressed.' But if someone comments something about sexuality or gay rights people hop on very quick to say how if anyone disagrees, they are wrong, and bigoted, and oppressing people. 
So gays can be oppressed, but minority's can't? Gays have had hard lives and haven't been treated fairly in the United States, but minorities haven't? I'm race baiting because I post this question, but I'm not 'gay' baiting if I post a question about gay people? 
Do you see the logic here? 🤔