What would you do?

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So, I recently cheated on my boyfriend and sex with another guy. I cried, I feel horrible about it. No one knows about, even the guy I had sex with doesn't know I have a boyfriend. I honestly love my boyfriend and want to be with him but I just can't believe I cheated on him. Should I tell him or keep a secret?

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Don't forget that she's asking for help ladies. 
Don't give advice that is laced with vehemence and don't try to shame her.

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Sorry but if you "love" your boyfriend. 
You wouldn't do that.
So tell him.

If he did it to you, I'm sure you would want him to tell you.

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Tell him. You have no right to keep it from him. It's deceitful and he should be able to choose wether he stays or leaves. And cheating isn't a mistake it's a selfish choice

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Relationships are based on trust and honesty. You owe it to your boyfriend to tell him, he deserves to know.

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If you succeeded in cheating, don't think the other person is a fool, realize he trusted you more then you deserved. Everything done in the dark, eventually comes to the light.

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Ya'll ain't married yet...

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It's funny how most of you say tell him, like some of you never cheated. Don't tell him. It will only hurt him. If you plan on doing it again, absolutely tell him than.

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girl. no worries. some people out there have trouble refraining themselves. I've been there, and I've done it. it probably sounds bad, but don't tell him. it'll only hurt him and you can cause a huge ordeal. it's definitely possible to love him & still cheat. planning on doing it again, however, is definitely not a good thing.

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You don't "LOVE" him you think you do. Just let him go you're not ready to be in s real relationship

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If you "love" him you wouldnt have slept with someone else! That is not love sweetie. I wish you the best of luck but honesty is the best policy!!