can we please start making eve more accepting...

Rosie
Hi, I see a lot of post saying things like "does your boyfriend..." Or "do you have a boyfriend...." Or "anything to do with partners but instead of saying partner I'm going to be really restrictive and say boyfriend so people in relationships with two girls feel out of place and uncomfortable"
I am a girl who is currently in a relationship with another girl and it feels so terrible when people are incapable of saying partner or SO or something inclusive.  Please guys can we just stop restricting post to boyfriends. 
Thanks 😊
EDIT: I'm not talking about people who are talking about their boyfriend, I'm talking about people who are talking about partners in general and exclude a whole group of people.