So I'm only 20 weeks and I was planning to have my baby shower early September or later in September anyway my baby daddy goes and tells one of my friends that I need help planning it but my mom is throwing my baby shower and now my friend wants to help to everything's under control with the baby shower now I'm in the awkward position how do you tell somebody that everything under control.. This is what he does he doesn't listen to anything I tell him and then he brings all these extra people when I told him my mom had everything under control and then he goes and tells my friend that I need help planning the baby shower and she's all excited about it now and I hate confrontation I don't want to be in a awkward position where I have to tell her I don't need help And a little side information you told me not to hang with her anymore but now he tells her I need help