How do I tell my boyfriend to be rougher?

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I've told my boyfriend that he can be as rough as he wants during sex. He even said "I feel like I've been gentle" and I agreed and have told him to be a little rougher yet he's still gentle. Maybe he just doesn't want to objectify me, but how do I broach this subject without making him feel inadequate.

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I just say "choke me" and "harder" and stuff or ask if I'm his little slut or whatever word you're into

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Stay stuff like harder harder. And tell him to pull your hair and smack your ass lol it sounds silly but don't ask for it just tell him to

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If/when he caresses you while you're messin around, grab his hand and squeeze whatever he's grabbing I yours harder, you could also try little bites that progressively get rougher (shoulders ears neck lips). Get a little rough with him and he might pick up on it. Pull his hair if it's long enough. I have the same problem but a little encouragement helped. I still can't get my boyfriend to pull my hair lol

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Show him ask him to pull your hair, also do it to him. If he is giving u oral pull his hair talk to him aggressivly. He will turn around and do it back. With my bf Im very hands on. I kiss on him, bite on him, if im givin him oral I put his hand on my head to let him know he can grab it.. Etc

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Choke me spank me pull my hair ;) it's a ring tone I use to have. It did the trick but he made me take it off my phone lol

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I slap my dh ass during the moment that seems to get the point across

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All I say is "harder" or "faster" and "don't stop" with a few oooohs and yeeeeas.

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I tell my DH to fuk me harder. I pull his hair, smack his ass, choke him, I want it all back in return. N boy do I get it! ???

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I know how you feel same situation too. Sometimes he doesn't want objectify you rather doesn't want to harm you in a physical way. Rough for us can mean one way but for them it can mean differently such as biting or pushing in harder. Just direct yourself in a matter in which he gets your drift and just cross your fingers. :)

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Maybe give him instructions during sex, like tell him to spank you or whatever you want him to do. And then let him know when he does it that you really like it

How do I tell my boyfriend to be rougher?

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