What would you do?

Obviously in the end, we need to make the decision, but I'm curious what you would do. I'm freaking out so sorry for the long rant.

I've been wanting to try for our second since January, but my husband is freaked out by the whole pregnancy/birthing process from my first- like a mild ptsd, even though there was no huge complications. He is a great support when needed, but he panics.

this last month finally came to the decision to stop not trying, and we both felt like it was a good time for our family, spiritually, financially, etc. Not pregnant yet.

Fast forward to yesterday, my husband got fired- we're shocked. hopefully, he will get another job soon.

But the big question is do we stop trying? I feel like if we stop now it will be hard to get him to try again later. I'm pretty confident we will be fine come when the baby would be due, but our first pregnancy we had no money and it stressed us out. We do have a bit of savings, but it will dry up fast if we don't get any income soon.

And secondarily, I feel abandoned. My husband has had the worst luck. his childhood was messed up and we've been married for four years and every time we seem to get to some level of security we/he gets knocked down by something else. Every time it happens my husband gets pretty depressed-understandably. That was his best job in many ways and he's feeling low. He generally is a go getter and gets back up but I'm afraid one of these times he gets knocked down he's not going to get back up again and I don't know how to handle that. I know heavenly father loves and had blessed us in many ways- but I don't get it. We are surrounded by successful friends/family, so we know it can happen, just not to us apparently.

Any advice or support would be helpful at this point. :/