venting

my mom just passed away and I'm getting so frustrated with her older sister and a few of her friends. my sister and I are next of kin and so all decisions are mine and hers, but for some reason these women keep putting their noses where they don't belong and trying to tell us how to handle everything. I'm all for accepting advice and hearing offers of help, but the overstepping of boundaries has got to stop. I'm already grieving the loss of my mother when I'm only 32 and she was 50. I don't need a bunch of busybodies trying to encroach on my responsibilities as a daughter. ugh!