Ask mom or siblings questions

Crys • Pastry chef, animal lover, beach bum, nonstop reader
So my husband and I are trying to conceive.  I'm the type of person who has to read up on everything so that I feel more prepared.  Anyway we have agreed not to tell our families that we are trying to avoid the nosy questions.  But as I've been reading I started wondering what questions should I ask my mom or my aunts about their pregnancy?  Thoughts & suggestons would be great!