Youll get pregnant, "IF ITS MEANT TO BE"

If you have been trying to conceive for any length of time, especially years, how do you take it when someone says if it's meant to be, it will be. I just recently heard that comment directed towards me. And I don't know how to respond or feel. Yes I have a soon-to-be 12 year old. And we have soon-to-be nine-year-old twins. However they are all Miracle babies. I saw her with ectopic pregnancies, miscarriages, and my twins were born at 29 weeks which caused my daughter to have Mild-moderate spastic diplegic cerebral palsy. Anyhow we didn't think we would have any more kids. I almost got my tubes tied. Butt 5 years ago I got the copper hormone free IUD. We just had it removed 4 months ago. And started our journey with TTC. Its only been 3-4 cycles. In the past i got pregnant first cycle, first try. So this is different for us,even tho it hasn't been years like many of you are going through.

****however ***** my issue is that when I told a few close ppl that we were out this month, many said, "if it's meant to be it'll happen " or.... "it must not be meant to be or youd be pregnant" and "everything happens for a reason"

.........ehhh...... I don't even know how to respond. I know i don't HAVE TO respond. But... I mean, I don't know... my emotions are everywhere. How would you feel if you were told these things??? As i know most of you have had the same or similair remarks.What would you think? I mean... "if it's meant to be,it'll be"

I HATE THAT!!!!!!!!