Social media :(

My SO's biological mother wants to be my friend on facebook and ive declined. She just got a relationship back with her son the last few years. His family until i became pregnant really didnt have any interest in getting to know me at all..made no attempts..but now that i am pregnant they want to be my best friends...still do not show interest in getting to know me..who i am as a person...it is all about baby. Which yes..baby is exciting and im grateful and thankful for the love and support..but i cannot help to feel if i wasnt pregnant theyd still not want to know who i am.

Im a very private person...my facebook account has 40 friends...all family members and long time friends. No strangers...noone that i do not have a very personal connection with offline is on my facebook.

My SO's family is wanting me to be their friends. i dont know them so i said no. It has caused a problem. I dont post much baby related stuff and if i do i tag my SO and he shares it so his family can see.

Im sticking to my guns on this social media matter...but cant help to feel like im being a bitch. I just feel like if you really wanted to be my friend youd attempt in real life..face to face...not just in the cyber world~