Having a baby out of wedlock

I hate when people say you have two kids and not married. Yup and your point😒😒. Its always somebody who life is like a Jerry springer episode who wanna judge people. Can you please have half your life together before you worry about me not being married and having kids. The old me would cuss people out when they sat that bs. But now I just laugh because honestly what they say don't mean nothing. I'm the one carrying the baby and taking care of it so take a long walk of a short peir before you judge my life.