Maybe a mistake?

Lisa • Mom of 4 boys and one baby girl. Mom of a high-school graduate, preschooler in heaven, 3 year old twins and a 1 year old princess.
I'm 26 weeks with di/di twins. We have decided to switch doctors to one that delivers at a hospital that is closer with bigger rooms. Both hospitals have a level 3 NICU. I told my dr today that we were thinking of switching and he said that would be a BIG mistake. He said that the hospital he delivers at has a better NICU and that my babies might have to be transferred to another hospital while I was stuck in the other one. He also said that the perinatologist I would see would be further away. Just trying to sway my decision I'm sure. Things have been going well so far, just twins with GD. Other than that no complications. I like my dr and he seems knowledgeable about twins but now my husband is pissed and said no matter what he doesn't want him delivering. I have a consultation with a new Dr. on Friday and hopefully I'll like him and he'll agree to take me on. I just worry I might be making a mistake. Any comments or suggestions would be appreciated.
Update: I made the decision to switch! The new dr even asked if I wanted him to set up an appointment with a dietitian. He answered all my questions and made me feel comfortable enough to switch right then. He's a lot closer than the other dr and the perinatologist will be closer along with the hospital. I hope I made the right decision.😃
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Ly

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I am considering switching doctors for the sole purpose of delivering at a facility with a NICU (I'm a worrier and just in case). Did the new dr office you were looking at give you any grief? I will have to drive 45 min now to appts if I do switch as opposed to 5 min, but I'm looking for peace of mind.

Ma

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I also switched Drs at 25 weeks and honestly I am so glad I did! Just make sure you really ask all the questions possible to make an educated decision. I think you should be fine and also do your research on both hospitals NICUs so you can make an educated decision on that end too. Good luck!! 

Ja

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I switched from a doctor to a midwife late in my pregnancy and it's the best decision I ever made. My only suggestion would be to do your research on the facility you want to give birth at as well as the doctor. Also you should have a logical reason why your considering going to someone new so late in your pregnancy. Before you go to your consultation you should write down all the questions you may have so you don't forget anything. Good luck !

Li

Lisa • Jun 7, 2016
Thank you, what questions should be on my list? I have one going but hoping I don't leave any out