Do you know someone that absolutely hates babies?

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I have a friend that hatessssss babies.. She says they stink they are annoying they never shut up, and they are a waste of space. She says any woman that has kids is stupid because they are expensive . and i feel some type of way because i have a daughter and i have no regrets about it. Idk how i feel about her friendship anymore is like i cant trust her with my child just based on how she feels and is awkard

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Ah, does she realize she once was a baby? She sounds annoying and I don't know how you can be friends with someone like that. If I know someone like that, she would be outta my life. Don't let her get you down. I can't tell you who to be friends with but she doesn't sound like a good friend. Tell her to keep her opinions to herself!!

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That attitude is disgusting. Does she realize she's lucky she didn't have a guardian that had that attitude? Or maybe she did and needs therapy. Sorry... Not sorry

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I've got one who isn't big on kids and doesn't see the big deal about babies. When I first found out I was pregnant we went to dinner and she proceeded to talk about how she would abort a child with disabilities and havin kids at my age is dangerous, I'm 34, and selfish. Needless to say, we are no longer friends.

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Yeh I got a "friend" like that too...ya know it's fine! It's her opinion. She's not gonna harm your child, so I think you can trust her just fine...I'm pregnant now and I see my Facebook friends saying hey I need a babysitter , can anyone help me out!? I'm like please God not me don't ask me!!! Haha I'm gonna love my child but I don't want to watch someone else's. Idk just saying.

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Wtf?? I know some people aren't that good with babies or don't understand them, but did you bring up the fact that she was (and we all were) babies at one point?? Ask her if she feels like she was a waste of space. Or the people she cares about. Idk where she got that mindset but that's so incredibly rude and I don't get it at all. I would be questioning our friendship also if I was you. One of my friends says she is happy being single and doesn't see the point of marriage and never wants kids at least still understands that they are little bundles of joy and she likes being with them! She just doesn't want one of her own.

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I think people like that have some underlying issues

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I know someone that absolutely absolutely detest babies . yet she has two kids and her excuse: because Society will shun her if she doesn't have children . what a crock of crap!

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I mean whatever, she's allowed to feel that way and she never has to have kids. While I don't agree with it, I wouldn't end a friendship because of it? 
Not sure how comparable it is but my bff hates dogs and I am super animal lover, and have two very doggy dogs myself that I seriously love to death. She hates them, doesn't want them near her, will shove them off the couch if she's over, doesn't even try to be nice to them which is more than your friend has done. Anyway, I just don't ever hang out with her and the dogs! Don't talk about them much to her, don't invite her places I'm bringing my dogs, whatever. Our friendship is good for lots of other things. 
However, a baby isn't a dog and if you have children you really can't exclude them from parts of your life for a friend.
I can understand you being mad/annoyed at this because there was a long time I was mad at my friend and that's just with dogs! I just had to realize she's the friend I go to when I want to go out to breakfast with a girl or spend a day at the beach or get my nails done, but not much else.

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If it were me, I'd say you don't need that kinda friend. I used to know people like this but not anymore because there was just too little in common. I wouldn't want to go on hearing how kids and babies are a pain and a bad idea while I've got my baby girl to raise.

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Sounds like she's a waste of oxygen for having so much hate towards babies and kids. Wow.

Do you know someone that absolutely hates babies?

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