Not sure how I feel about this

So I recently have been told I'm a high risk pregnancy. Am 25 years old and 29 weeks along and so far everything is fine just gotta keep a close eye on baby. My mom told me it could be worse my cousin who is 37 just had a missed miscarriage and had to have a D and C. I felt bad for my cousin but wonder why my mom
Had to bring that up? Plus it's like comparing apples and oranges....can't really compare the two. Is she trying to make me feel better? Because it doesn't obviously. My cousin would have Been due a month after me so now I feel guilty when I already have enough to worry about