Stalker problems?

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Okay so I have had a stalker for about a year and I finally got a restraining order from him after he broke into my apartment on 3 different occasions. Anyways he apparently has a girlfriend who is now harassing me and my boyfriend and keeps telling me she's going to come to my apartment and that I don't have a restraining order against her so tough luck basically. What I'm wondering is the text evidence of her basically doing his dirty work considered grounds for a police call. My boyfriend is at work and I live alone. I hate being petrified to be at my own apartment. I know I probably brought all this on myself somehow but any advice would be great. I just need to know if anyone else has dealt with this stuff before. I know this is a period tracker site but some people on here give the best advice...

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Get a gun. If she breaks in, I'd shoot her. It's self defense. As for harassing, block her or something, go to the police, get a restraining order on her too.

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Go to the police and tell them your situation...it's the best you can do be sure to show the evidence of the dudes gf harassing you as well.

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You can get a order of protection on her as well. You have the texts as proof. and please remember that no matter what happened prior to you do not deserve to be stalked or scared.  U  deserve peace of mind. Good luck and be safe.  If you can change your number and move....

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If you have texts you can probably slap her with a restraining order, too. Just go to the station and talk to someone, show them the texts, let them advise you. She is obviously a bit crazy if she is helping her own bf stalk you. I have dealt with this twice and I was advised to learn to protect myself. I got a gun and a carry permit, but that is not for everyone. I also found a bigger, more alpha guy to date and that scared off the last one. I am no damsel in distress but I am willing to use any resources available to me :)

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You don't deserve this.

I think calling cops will help.

For some reason I am optimistic about the girlfriend... I think if they have a breakup or any drama, they will focus on each other instead of you.  Hopefully.

Good luck.  I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.

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It's phone harassment and if she's threatening you; you have every right to call the police. You should never be scared to be at your own home. Just call, the worst they can say is they can't do anything but you're legit scared so they will probably call and tell her to leave you alone.

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Call the police. There is no harm in asking if they can help. That is what they are there for. Make sure you keep your doors locked. Have you considered moving? Or seeing if your landlord will allow you to install an alarm system? Some have cameras and you can see if they break in when u are not home. Protect yourself. If it's a gun make sure you know how to use it. Or even get pepper spray if it's legal where you live. Ask the police, they can help you with options in your area.

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I have a restraining order against a stalker ex and it states that there can be no contact on his behalf including threats from him via his friends.. You should look through yours hopefully it has the same type of thing....

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