My husband and I do not have a shared bank account and for the first time I had to ask him to transfer some money to me :/ he pays the big bills like mortgage, insurance, utilities. I pay for food, medical bills, my car, my phone and "fun" money. He makes twice as much as me which is why we split the bills up that way. I just feel bad because he is so good with money and my accounts are drained. I am wondering if we would do better with a shared account.