Away from your husband for months?

Question

My husband and I moved to Hawaii after he got stationed here back in August. We were newly married. Right off the bat, we got pregnant and I just had the baby a couple weeks ago. 
His grandparents, who he is super close to, wants to pay my way back home in August.The only thing is, it's only going to be me and the baby. My husband wouldn't be joining us until Christmas time. 
I feel heartbroken that I would have to leave my husband for THAT long and it not even be a deployment. He doesn't seem to care at all. I really miss my family, too. We would be able to see them while we are there. 
What would you do? To go or not to go?

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No way am I leaving my husband if he's not deployed for that long! He's my family. End of November maybe. But yeh not August

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Go, relax & get some family time and when he gets home for Christmas it will be even better! I used to be stationed in Hawaii as well and made the difficult decision to take our 6 month old and myself home early before a deployment! It's hard but family always makes things better! ❤️

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Just go later.

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Personally, I wouldn't just because I'd rather spend that time with my family.

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I definitely wouldn't go.

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I'd wait closer until he could go so it isn't as long a gap, but if it's a now or never situation, I'd go. I'm sure your family is dying to meet the baby.

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Would they be open to you coming later? Say in November so you're not apart for as long?

Away from your husband for months?

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