Ib or early af (no pix)

I am 8 dpo and hav been noticing some brown on the tp when I wipe the past couple of days (sorry if TMI) Last night when my husband and I had sex, there was a decent amount of brownish colored blood. Today there has been nothing but a slight pink/ light brown color on the tp. I have a feeling it is ugly af showing up early but wanted to know if maybe anyone else has experienced this before and ending up getting a bfp afterall? Any opinions...