I've just found out I'm pregnant, and I know a lot of people will be disappointed. I'm 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. The problem is I live with him and his parents and his parents are really stuck up they look down on younger girls getting pregnant and my boyfriend is doing so good with his life I'm worried it might bring him down. His mother is psycho so I'm not sure how bad she's going to react and his father is pretty laid back but I'm not sure how he will take it either. My grand mother will be disappointed I think because all my cousins have had children and I think she's always expected better from me  because I'm not one to fight and loud mouthed and having children to live off benefits.  I was on birth control but it's obviously failed I took it at the same time everyday and have never missed one. There's no chance that I'll have an abortion so it's out of the question. How can I break the news to my boyfriend and how can we break it to his parents? My parents would be fine I'm very close to my mother and I can talk to my father about everything. My sister got pregnant at 18 and they were very happy for her so I'm not worried at all about them. I'm feeling a lot of emotions right now in really scared and nervous but happy and exited at the same time. I'm not sure how to say it. And what makes it even worse my brother in law and SIL have been trying for a long time and I feel like the stupid kid who's taking the spotlight from them.